WHO RAISED ABEL & WHO'S RAISING CAIN?

WHO RAISED ABEL & WHO'S RAISING CAIN?

I want us to look at this picture very well and ask ourselves, "who's the one destroying discipline in me?" "Who's the one collapsing, distorting, reducing quality and substituting it with another thing in my life?"

Once you find the answer in all honesty, even if you won't delete that person, don't emulate or obey them again. 

Imagine these two sons and how they've turned differently because one was held to the highest responsibility and now towing the road that made the father great (as a renown body builder, action movie protagonist and politician - ex Governor of California). 

Look at the other son like an over ripe pawpaw ready to give way (that's far away from body-shaming please). He is not even mindful of his health and if he continues this way, he'll gain extra pounds, develop breathing problems and be mandated to lean down. So, he might eventually do what he should have embraced but under a bad condition. 

All he knows is food with no force of discipline ruling his body (and probably mind and life). 

Let me say this. In the home setting, who a child should really look at or emulate might be one of the parents and not both at times. Yes! 

If one of the parents is deficient in character and the other is better and upright, the children have their high model and priest. You can't tell me if the father is a ragamuffin, all his daughters should take after him and become prostitutes when the mother is sane, faithful and a good home keeper. 

In calling at times, it's either one of the parents a child might take after. And let me tell you, those who have not been trained cannot train you. 

The consequence is what you're seeing in that other child. 

I'll drop enough pictures of that well trained son who emulates his father and you'll see that his role model is the man with the calling and not the woman with the feeding bottle. 

Is this a prejudice against women raising children? No! As long as she's the one who could train them for their calling, she should be allowed to. 

Susannah Wesley raised John and his brother, who went on as cornerstones of the Methodist Church. 

Ben Carson's mother though an illiterate motivated and created a schedule under close monitoring for Ben and the brother to study. 

The results are in our faces. 

Once you see the calling anywhere, defer to it. Let it train you. What I heard is that, "it is where the dead is that the vultures gather." Has it changed in your own opinion?

Olusola ADEJUMO,

M'Wings.