Wednesday, 25 December 2024

EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION: HOW EXPERIENCE COULD INFORM YOUR STARTING

EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION: HOW EXPERIENCE COULD INFORM YOUR STARTING

If you're a parent and you take parenting very seriously, after the season of taking care of your little ones is over, you might begin to receive the passion to start a CRECHE. 

Would it be right heeding that? Yes! It isn't what came out of the need to cope with the economic situation first of all. Rather, it was born out of your variegated trainings and experiences which you have accumulated as a father or mother who allowed parenting to shape him/her in character, patience, discipline, research, hard work, resilience etc. 

The deception might be, "I'm a man not a woman. I can't found a Creche or a Nursery." Who told you that lie? You can found, be part of it and employ other passionate people (men and women alike) to work with you. 

There's a woman by my house. She and her husband waited for 11 years before they carried their own babies. When she gave birth, she delivered triplet. She didn't give thought to a creche until she started raising those three chaps. With the fact that those babies confined her movement, it occured to her one day that she could extend what she's doing for her babies into a full time work. That's how they turned their big sitting room into a creche. They've gotten a wider space in the same property now. 

Listen people, certain things will be birthed out of your training and experience. Don't mind those putting their hands forward when they're shallow on the inside. They're only looking for means of livelihood! That's why you must not cut corner in training. All my leadership years on campus and in those different places I served naturally processed and made me a minister. I don't need a title to function. When I mount up, whether I've been processed or not will show. Even if you live with me, you could decipher same. 

God might just be using your own complicated boy to mount you up and tease you to look for solutions on how to tackle adolescent problems. Sooner or later, you might be shocked that you might be made adolescent coordinator in church. If you handle these two assignments faithfully, one day it might occur to you as your call to start an NGO seeing to adolescents and helping them overcome their peculiar challenges. 


So, this is it. Whenever you're offered responsibilities, don't reject it. If you're called to serve in the creche or nursery or the children's church in the ministry you attend, kindly avail yourself. Out of that experience if you really submit to it may come your own school later on. You'll just feel equipped and experienced to start a thing like that because you've experienced a look alike to it. 

Recently, my school's cooperative society (with incorporation of outside members) elected me as its new Financial Secretary. Imagine, I'm not even a year old in that school. To qualify for election, I had to quickly fund my savings with a minimum of #50,000 which also would qualify me for the AGM (which has been held already). The subject I hate and don't want to have to do with is Mathematics. The fellow who handed over to me was a Mathematics teacher but I accepted because I wanted to be trained. Let me go out of my comfort zone once more. If you visit my home now, you'll see the long bank statement I'm imputing. I want to see where that responsibility would lead me. 

This Cooperative Society isn't a small one. A society that processes close to 100 Million yearly isn't small and I guess you could paint how many members it would have. While I use a certain designed spreadsheet yet I submitted to this new assignment because I don't want to miss a lifetime opportunity of how money, loan, interest and certain underlying things work. The chairperson  while speaking said I recommended you because you're not frivolous. You're pact together and you'll be able to take enquiries of people and input their necessary financial details. The truth is this new assignment might have a thing to do for me later on though I don't know for now how and where. What if God is seeing that I'll later have an institution where the accountants would present to me transactions in millions and He doesn't want me to be confused seeing I hate Mathematics or calculation but rather wants to work on me now to have accommodation for it. Or else, one might be cheated. I tell you, if you have an organization, even if you have financial managers, you must still understand how your money is doing. You need certain education to see deeply and into some people's shady business or calculation. Don't forget my wife is an accountant also and from the experience she has shared, I've learnt that some other accountants are good thieves. For this reason, that knowledge might be useful. 

It pays when things are born out of your experience and training. They're easily birthed since you've already been capacitated for them. 

If you're a parent and you won't shy from rejoicing in every areas of raising your baby, by the time you'll be finishing those babyhood or childhood stages, you should have become a teacher and an excelling trainer. The training and experience of an educator should have been impacted into you. As such, you could go into Education even without being officially certified in Education. 

What we should beware are people calling themselves ministers because they have certificate for it but haven't walked the road that makes one. What we should beware is anyone saying he is something when he hasn't walked that road. It's better to have a training and life for something than just being certified with a paper. If you have the life presently, the life will attract or naturally confer on you the paper. 

So, let's pursue right.

Olusola ADEJUMO,

M'Wings.

Friday, 20 December 2024

WHO RAISED ABEL & WHO'S RAISING CAIN?

WHO RAISED ABEL & WHO'S RAISING CAIN?

I want us to look at this picture very well and ask ourselves, "who's the one destroying discipline in me?" "Who's the one collapsing, distorting, reducing quality and substituting it with another thing in my life?"

Once you find the answer in all honesty, even if you won't delete that person, don't emulate or obey them again. 

Imagine these two sons and how they've turned differently because one was held to the highest responsibility and now towing the road that made the father great (as a renown body builder, action movie protagonist and politician - ex Governor of California). 

Look at the other son like an over ripe pawpaw ready to give way (that's far away from body-shaming please). He is not even mindful of his health and if he continues this way, he'll gain extra pounds, develop breathing problems and be mandated to lean down. So, he might eventually do what he should have embraced but under a bad condition. 

All he knows is food with no force of discipline ruling his body (and probably mind and life). 

Let me say this. In the home setting, who a child should really look at or emulate might be one of the parents and not both at times. Yes! 

If one of the parents is deficient in character and the other is better and upright, the children have their high model and priest. You can't tell me if the father is a ragamuffin, all his daughters should take after him and become prostitutes when the mother is sane, faithful and a good home keeper. 

In calling at times, it's either one of the parents a child might take after. And let me tell you, those who have not been trained cannot train you. 

The consequence is what you're seeing in that other child. 

I'll drop enough pictures of that well trained son who emulates his father and you'll see that his role model is the man with the calling and not the woman with the feeding bottle. 

Is this a prejudice against women raising children? No! As long as she's the one who could train them for their calling, she should be allowed to. 

Susannah Wesley raised John and his brother, who went on as cornerstones of the Methodist Church. 

Ben Carson's mother though an illiterate motivated and created a schedule under close monitoring for Ben and the brother to study. 

The results are in our faces. 

Once you see the calling anywhere, defer to it. Let it train you. What I heard is that, "it is where the dead is that the vultures gather." Has it changed in your own opinion?

Olusola ADEJUMO,

M'Wings.

Thursday, 19 December 2024

TOY: THE GREAT VIBRANIUM DETECTOR!

TOY: THE GREAT VIBRANIUM DETECTOR! 

In the Pan-African movie, "Black Panther (Wakanda Forever)", we see the bid to explore a mineral dubbed "vibranium." To detect this precious metal, a machine had to be built by a young intelligent Black female inventor for that sole purpose. Without this machine, vibranium couldn't have been detected where it lies buried in the belly of the ocean or wherever God had destined it (or where the foosils are as Science told us). 

In same manner, toys are detectors. While they may not serve as conclusive detectors (especially at your ward's early stage) yet they are (especially if he shows interest in a particular set of toys than others). 

I'll advise that you furnish your ward with different range of toys. We sure know they'll change toys as their age or growth advances. From dolls or empathy toys to cognitive toys or those that'll help him/her develop motor skills. 

As you do, begin to watch them at play. Play with them. Enjoy the task like they do. Offer assistance where necessary and set them on motion of what tasks to do with the toys. 

You might be shocked to see your ward gravitate towards certain toys than the others. If your ward would love to play on end with certain toys or refuse to share it with any other, it might be because that type of toy sparks certain curiosity in him than others and he's saying, "I want to have this field for myself to own, dominate and advance." That's jealousy of protection for his love or obsession. It therefore means that's the toy waking up his natural passion or giving him a rare sense of delight or sublimity. Is he showing uncanny interest in animal toys? It's an indication of an attraction to animal science, wildlife photography or animal husbandry. What about a deep seethed obsession for technological toys? You might be looking at a future inventor or designer of something. 

This sense of gratification will heighten as they grow especially as they meet the subjects that fit their natural inclinations. It's on that they'll spend more time. It's on that they'll shut out distraction and even delay pleasure. In childhood, I was drawn to Fine Art and I drew most of my time with special attraction to folklore, story telling and world's cultures. When I got to Senior Secondary School, my love for Literature knew no bound. It just struck something in me. I just loved it. I'm not surprised at my eventual studying of English and having M.A in English Literature, becoming an Educator and a fine creative writer cut-crossing many facets. 

If you can make a good connection, you might have detected by now what possible area your child might fit into. While he might still need to choose a niche but these earlier and latter signs would have indicated the community he should go. For instance: Art, Science or Commercial.

However, his journey to narrow down will continue until he fits himself into a colony that most suits him. This journey begins at infancy when you begin to delight with toys in order to wake up their latent energy and ability where it resides. This will help because if this awakened interest is sustained, it'll help them carry surely this obsession to where they would make decision (without being confused) on which career choice or field to go into. Those who don't recognize the voice of their vocation early might have trouble hearing it later. Those who have heard it once have something to compare with, search for or wake up again. 

Toys and the effective use of them can help us begin to have a glimpse into this. As a matter of fact, great masters of their vocations started out loving something or someone in their fields. It was the flickering camera with pseudo pictures, mathematical compass, folklore and world's cultures or experimental and laboratory tools that woke up the curiosity of some. 

This simple sign made some writers, scientists, cinematographers or inventors. Toy is therefore a kind of machine built to help us locate where that precious natural resource - vibranium is hidden in our own kid. Even as your toddler or adolescent indulges in toys or games, we might infer where they'll end just by studying which wakes up their curiosity the more and for which they admire to replicate or explore more. 

Toys are therefore not only tools to keep our babies or toddlers from crying. It is rather a means of awakening them to their world, cultivating social, cognitive, eye-hand (motor) skills etc. 

For a body builder to sculpt a body that'll impress anyone, he needs some certain tools just for that. Those are located in the gym right? Several tools have been invented to develop and carve out muscles where necessary. There are tools and exercises just for training and sculpting the thighs, shoulders, belly, chest and other parts of the body. Without using them or indulging in those exercises, no materialization can happen. You therefore can't bring out the possibility that's possible in your muscular self!

To breed a creative child is simple. Stimulate him. Put something in their faces to watch. Be like Jacob who wanted a type of sheep and so peeled white streaks in poplar trees and set it at the animals' feeding troughs. At day's end, they gave birth to what was erected at their faces! He brought out what he was looking for. He created a device to call that forth. That's simple invention through the power of faith and visualization. Occupy them and once you're lucky to strike on their innate ability or passion, take that and train it to its height. But for now, you need to have a nursery of toys!

This is how some have child prodigies earlier on. It is not by leaving anything to chance but by making available the necessary tools, toys, games and exercises that can lead to the discovery, training and then realization of their individuals. 

If you don't know, individuality wants to speak and through each of us. May that of your kid voice out. May it thunder like the voice of the Lord that breaks the cedars of Lebanon. May it be that strong, gracious and commanding on the day of its manifestation when it cries out. 

Remember, we not only train/develop with toys, we discover with toys!

Who we are in our deepest self is gravitated towards and embraced once sighted in reality - even in toys, certain subjects, games, mentors and exercises!

Olusola ADEJUMO,

M'Wings.

Morning Wings Ministry, Nigeria.

+234 81 3704 6812

solaadenathmail@gmail.com or morningwingsministryplus@gmail.com

Wednesday, 18 December 2024

GREAT ALBINOS YOU SHOULD KNOW

 GREAT ALBINOS YOU SHOULD KNOW

1. Emiko Amotsuka - a Nigerian preacher and teacher. I saw him first 3 or 4 years ago at Faith Easter Seminar when Reverend Olusola Areogun invited him as a guest minister. One of the faith fathers in Nigeria. Poju Oyemade recently celebrated his 75th birthday or so with him. 

2. Salif Keita - Malian musician and songwriter. He has a special voice that makes him chant unimaginably. He also has a daughter who's an albino.

3. Nantenin Keita - daughter of Salif Keita and a professional para-athletics runner. She has competed in the Olympics severally. Both father and daughter are the direct descendants of the FOUNDER of Mali Empire, the great Sundiata Keita we all read about in History. 

4. Connie Chiu - born in Hong Kong. She studied Arts and Journalism. The first ever albino model the world recorded. 

5. Diandra Forrest - African - American model & actress. 

6. Jake Epelle - Nigerian policy developer and advocate.

7. John Chiti - Zambian song writer, musician, humanitarian and albino advocate. The movie, "Can You See Us?", is based on his life. 

Gift overcomes disability. Grace wins over impotency.

@ M'Wings.

LIFE BEYOND ALBINISM

 BIRTH!

Parents look with hope and great anticipation for their child to be born, especially their first born. 

But this anticipation has become disappointment for some parents. Such is that of Kennedy, a waiting father whose wife gives birth to an albino. 

Kennedy would have none of it as albinos are seen as deficient and inferior to the normal child whose skin are not lacking in melanin or sufficient of it. The society has labelled such as the rejected and dejected. In many places, albinos are even targets of ritual killers. 

You need to watch the movie CAN YOU SEE US?

It tells the story of the birth, childhood, challenges, stereotypes and stardom of a lone albino. 

This simple movie challenges the status quo and calls us to embrace shared humanity, not discriminating in any way. 

Apart from this plot, you'll be immersed in what it means finding your gift/calling, nurturing it and becoming it. 

Music is the theme here and motherhood and adoptive parents are to be praised. 

You can be the next hit like Joseph (the albino boy) and protagonist in this movie. 

@ M'Wings.

Saturday, 14 December 2024

MORNING WINGS DAILY DEVOTIONAL - 14/12/2024

 SATURDAY - 14TH DECEMBER, 2024

MORNING WINGS DAILY DEVOTIONAL  - Olusola ADEJUMO

CONFUSION IS BANISHED WHEN YOU SEE BEFORE LEAVING -  Knowing The Planned Time Series 014

Matthew 2:1, KJV

"1 Now when Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judaea in the days of Herod the king, behold, there came wise men from the east to Jerusalem, 2 Saying, Where is he that is born King of the Jews? for we have seen his star in the east, and are come to worship him."

God is still working with this verse. He still has some juice to squeeze out for our edification. 

Confusion is banished when you have seen, heard or known for sure before stepping out. You'll be so on point. You'll be so bold. You'll enter action with no shadow of doubt. People will look at you like this and wonder at your focus and effectiveness. Why? You heard, "that's the right place to be and you went there." Because that's the right place to be without doubt, you'll not reserve or withhold your labour because you know you do not have any second choice.

I love the way the magi chose to enquire of the precise location of Jesus when they got to Jerusalem. They say, "where is he that is born King of the Jews? for we have seen his star in the East and are come to worship him."

They are clear on who they wanted to meet though the entire populace is still in oblivion of any King of the Jews' birth. Even the inn where they were denied space, that resulted because the innkeeper didn't know Jesus is the King of the Jews or Saviour of mankind. If he had known, probably he would have made room for them. However, these magi are not without information like the rest of the populace. They know! It is this information they have at hand they now use to wage the warfare of tracking down Jesus. They asked by giving a vivid description, "where is he that is born King of the Jews, for we have seen his star in the East."

Later on when they were taken to Herod's palace (in their quest to know), he had nothing to capitalize on with which to confirm Jesus' birth and place than to ask the priests and scribes of the people where Jesus was to be born. 

"And when he had gathered all the chief priests and scribes of the people together, he demanded of them where Christ should be  born" (Matthew 2:4, KJV). 

He or somebody must have interpreted "King of the Jews" to mean Jesus Christ. So, without that description and specifics of the Magi which they got from God's revelation to them, Herod and others might have wandered in darkness. 

You will know what you want and who you want to see when you have gathered such specifics through divine revealing more importantly. You'll just be straightforward and be bold, making audacious claims and requests like, "where is he that is born King of the Jews for we have seen his star in the East..."

As such, confusion and ignorance are banished. You'll therefore no longer say, "I don't know what to demand of life or ask for." You'll immediately know and when you make your tender, it'll be straightforward and strong. You won't shiver and be in doubt of being found out for the lie you want to tell. You'll have no fear rather because you know it is truth you tell and not lies. 

PRAYER/CONFESSION: I set my face like a flint into Year 2025 and call it mine. Declare good into it.

1 YEAR BIBLE READING PLAN 

Revelation 6 & Amos 1-4

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Friday, 13 December 2024

MORNING WINGS DAILY DEVOTIONAL - 13/12/2024

 FRIDAY - 13TH DECEMBER, 2024

MORNING WINGS DAILY DEVOTIONAL  - Olusola ADEJUMO

WILL THIS BE YOUR TESTIMONY? - Knowing The Planned Time Series 013

Mathew 2:2, KJV

"Saying, where is he that is born King of the Jews? For we have seen his star in the East, and are come to worship him."

Do you know the testimony of some? It is, "for we have seen His star in the east..." Before we launched, we bear record that we had seen his star in the East. 

However, it is not everyone who can open their big mouth to say they have seen his star in the east before launching out. Some never had that experience of knowing God's mind before choosing their life's partner, choosing school, entering a career or relocating somewhere. They can lie about it or fake response to having received God's testimony before launching out, yet they will know deep down that they lie. 

The magi were able to boldly say it to whomsoever they come across in Jerusalem to help them in the location of the new born King of the Jews because we are sure of what we saw - "...we have seen his star in the east."

God wants this to be your testimony son/daughter. He wants you to be able to look back and testify that you had a prompting of the Spirit before you leaped out. He wants you to be able to tell people that you are not like other men but that, "you saw His star (heard Him) before you left your fatherland to another country."

2025 is not for the careless to dwell in. Except God initiates your journey or launches you on a path by providence (which you can testify of). Those who have gone on journeys on their own initiative will be falling for it. What the Lord is knocking this morning is this, "can you speak assuredly like these magi that you've seen my 'star' (revealing) before taking any step?" You're now in Jerusalem right? You've left the East. However, if you call people back home or meet new people where you are, can you tell them without any shadow of doubt that "you saw the star before departure." 

If you cannot, you need to repent and submit to the Lord who guides the feet of a man without letting him slip. The Lord is a good shepherd and because He is, those He leads will never live in perpetual want of a thing. He always meet their needs. That's why I'll like you rest in him without having guilty conscience that your operation is outside Him but only in pursuance of bread and not towards fulfillment of purpose where you are. 

When the magi saw the star in the East, it launched them to Jerusalem on a journey that God initiated for a purpose. The fact that such caliber of men have come to pay obeisance to baby Jesus proves His destiny as a great King indeed. He's a King that the whole heaven and earth will worship and according to Philippians 2:9-10, "God has highly exalted Him and given Him a name which is above every name...that in the name of Jesus every knee shall bow and every tongue confess irrespective of their locations". Also, through the magi's visit, God was able to support the newly born family through the precious gifts they gave Jesus. It could have been sold to finance their journey or take care of baby Jesus while in Egypt. 

That men from afar came to Jerusalem to bow down also shows how the fame of Jesus and His name would reach the ends of the earth. Today, we see all these in manifestation and we can reckon why God started the magi on their journey. 

They weren't idle men. They are wealthy and honourable men who have businesses to take care of before the appearance of the star cut them quit and gave them a new assignment to embark on - to find baby Jesus and pay homage to Him.

I pray for you that God will end frivolity in your life in this year and 2025 majorly. May you not do anything that'll make you not to be able to say capitally that, "we are here because we have seen his revealing in our heart."

Imagine how they spoke assuredly. When people shiver, stammer and are lost for words, it may be that God didn't initiate their journey before them. And what He didn't initiate, He won't prosper. May you not be on your own in life. 

PRAYER/CONFESSION: I am not lost. I am not alone. The Good Shepherd is with me and it is He who leads me on.

1 YEAR BIBLE READING PLAN 

Revelation 5 & Joel 1-3

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MORNING WINGS DAILY DEVOTIONAL - 17/01/2025

FRIDAY - 17TH JANUARY, 2025 MORNING WINGS DAILY DEVOTIONAL GUIDE - Olusola ADEJUMO IT IS FOR THE PRAISE OF GOD - Fitted For A Manner Of Life...